How to be Strong and Never Give Up



We are living in our current reality where discouragement is the order of the day.  Now and again I see myself and whatever is left of the world as warriors in a battle for freedom, fighting for our rights to live.

We will fail, unless we stay together, work together, and fight together. Why? Please read on...
This post will help you to motivate yourself to pursue your life goals no matter the obstacles you may face. 

It is geared towards helping you realise that mistakes are proof that you're trying. 

To enable you face life with confidences, remembering that it is possible to make mistake or fail at times, but when that happen, never assume it as an error on your part, or view it as the end.

See failure as the beginning, not an end
If you fail, never surrender because F.A.I.L. means First Attempt In Learning End… as a matter of fact, E.N.D. means "Effort Never Dies".  

Whatever stage you are at this moment in your life, is part of your learning process. Learn to enjoy the process and concentrate on the fun part of it. 

Focus on the outcome, and don't be afraid to make mistake. Remember, you only fail when you stop trying. So never stop trying because of what friends may say. 

Never stop believing, and never surrender. One day your diligent work will pay off if you do not give up, and you will smile; at that time, you will forget every one of your distresses. 

Never accept intimidation from anyone
You are more important than that for someone to treat you like a shit. Do not work or make friend with people who do not respect you.

If you get No as an answer, remember N.O. means "Next Opportunity". Always remember that mistakes are proof that you're trying.

Magic happens when you do not surrender; even though you wanted to. The universe always falls in love with a stubborn heart.
So, regardless of how you feel, never let your mood gets in the way. 

Build on your survival skills. Always get up, dress up, and show up. Don't be discourage, and never give up!

I don't know how my story will end, but nowhere in my text will it ever read... "I surrendered". I know, winners never quit, and quitters never win.

Practice giving
Work on giving more than recieving. How could giving affect your mood and make you strong so that you never give up? 

It’s simply because, people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care about them. 

When you have people at your back who love and cherish you, you will be incline to do more, knowing there’s a reason worth living for. 

Sooner or later, you will come to understand that, when you start given.

Give your time, love and money. The secret to making people like you is showing how much you like them!

Teaching is love
Teach others what you know. Do not keep your knowledge to yourself. There is fulfillment and much joy in teaching.  

There is no champion forever; however long it takes, the time will actually come when you will have to pass on to someone else, all that you have acquired and accomplished. 

So prepare yourself and be strong; assume nothing, but question everything...

See beyond your situation
Do not blow off all your energy trying to stress yourself over a situation you cannot control. Think of the good times ahead of you and imagine yourself in it.

Let them prove their love for you
Don't always stress yourself out on how you can be useful to people. This time, let them prove that they love you, let them prove their love for you.

You know, giving people a chance to prove their love for you, will build your self-esteem, protect you from the fear of man, helps you to focus on your goals, and increases your productivity.

Focus on what life has given you (your achievements, your skills, abilities, and your lovely family).

If it's really that bad, then see your situation as a privilege to know those that really love you. 

Friends who love and respect you for who you are and not for what you have or what they get from you, will keep on supporting you even when things are difficult for you; a time when you may think less of yourself or feel you are nobody. 

They will continue to show love, respect and care for you with no expectations.
Note, you will never realized these kind of friends when you are eating honey.


Be Wise... the future is important than the present. Don't think or care about how people are viewing you now. 

Allow People to form their judgment. Let them show how they have been viewing you. Actually, they have the right to think whatever they want about you. 

But in the end, only you alone knows who you really are; the experiences that made you who you have become today.

Stop thinking so much and start acting
Time waits for nobody, but we can work with time.

Everything you ever wanted in life is one step outside your comfort zone, if you actually do what is needed, and use the materials at your disposer.

What is needed is a goal or a plan to avoid wasting your time, and steps that you have set for yourself to accomplish them.

The materials at your disposer could be your knowledge (the combination of all that you have picked up from your life journey, including your abilities).

When we say ‘stop thinking so much and start acting’, the future is actually our focus. Keep in mind, if you do not go after it, you won't have it. 

Don’t always go for the general easy way if the journey will not favor you. Try your best to avoid the bread of laziness. Always do more than is expected of you, but never compare yourself with others. 

Competition could zap you of energy when the game is against you. So don’t compare your life to others. Each one with his or her own survival skills and timeline. 

There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time.

Be Patient
In all that you do, be patient. Take life day by day, be grateful for the little things, and try not to stress over what you can’t control. 

Remember, a river cuts through rocks, not because of its power or current, but because of its persistent. 

Life has thought me that tough times never last, but tough people do. 

So never surrender. Whatever happened, always get up, dress up, and show up. In every circumstances you find yourself, search for a reason why you should be strong and never give up.

 


Related:

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 HOW TO COPE WITH DEPRESSION (d.p)


HOW TO MAKE A HAPPY CAREER'S CHOICE IN YOUR 20s 

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